When I Talk About Love

They said love is blind. That's why people don't need reasons to love someone.

Hello, mates. Nice to see you again after a while. I'm trying to make myself write dilligently but that's kinda hard, you know, because of the college and stuffs. I'm on my 6th semester now, gettin' closer to the graduation :p

Anyway, back to the statement I wrote on the first line. That's what this post is all about.

Do you ever feel like you're interested in someone, and you want to waste your time with them, text them every day and smiled every time they pass? Don't worry, that's normal hehe. That is the condition of so-called "fall in love". You're in love, that's why their existance seems more important for you than before. And then you'll try to catch them, and then you'll confess to them, and you get them to be yours. What could be better than getting someone you adore?

Love has to be pure and sincere, they said. You don't need any reason to stay in love with someone. But really?

Actually, people, you need some (reasons). Why?  Because you can't be in love with someone randomly. 

You love your boyfriend 'cause you like him at first, 'cause he's handsome.

You love your girlfriend so much 'cause she's funny, and you can talk comfortly to her.

If only your boyfriend isn't handsome and kind, will you be able to love him? What if your girlfriend's hideous and rude, will you stay in love with her? I bet you won't. There will be always at least a reason why you choose to be on her / his side. Because she's pretty, he's funny, she's wise, or he's patient and good looking.

And guess what? I think it's normal. We're human beings, we choose who we want to be with. It's true that we have to give a sincere love to our precious ones, but that doesn't mean we don't have any reasons why we love them. WE DO HAVE.

"They said love is blind. That's why people don't need reasons to love someone."

Yeah, right!